http://getexback.relationshipatbest.com/2009/07/want-to-get-your-ex-back-dont-make-these-mistakes/
People usually are so emotional after a breakup that they do a lot of crazy things. They don’t realize what mistakes they are making while trying to get their ex back.
Mistake Number One
One of the first mistakes most people make is to call or text their ex all day long. It often feels like you are just compelled to call them, you need to keep in mind that this only drives them further away.
Mistake Number Two
Another common mistake is to beg or plead with your ex. You might just have the feeling that you really need to sit down and explain things clearly to your ex. If only you can make them understand just how much you love them, then all would be ok. This just makes you look desperate and makes your ex want to avoid you. People like to avoid unpleasantness and what makes them uncomfortable.
Mistake Number Three
The next problem is when you spend all your time talking and obsessing about your ex. Especially if you are around their family or friends – the word will spread back to them. Remember that the harder you try to hold onto them, the more they want to be free from you.
Mistake Number Four
Many times, when people get dumped the tendency is to sit around and mope all day. All you can think about is how miserable you are and pretty soon other people don’t want to be around you anymore. That’s not attractive to anyone! No matter how difficult it feels, you need to get out with your friends and be active and have some fun. You may surprise yourself that you can actually have a good time without your ex around. You will project a much more attractive image of yourself to the opposite sex, including your ex!
Avoiding these common mistakes will bring you much closer to winning your ex back. Your ex may have this image of you suffering without him or her and will be puzzled how well you seem to be getting along with them. They may even be a bit piqued! People tend to want what they can’t have, especially if it appears to be be just out of their grasp.
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